Another year around the sun. I’ve learned, I’ve grown, I’ve lived small and big moments, smiled and laughed, had a few tears but conquered my fears.
Another year to thank God for everything — the good and the bad.
There were many events since last year that has shaped me to my Kobe Year:
Losing my grandmother – hurt so badly. COVID was the barrier that kept us from seeing her one last time. If there was anyone I wanted to be super successful for, it was her. And although she isn’t here physically, I know she smiled when I took cap and gown pics at her grave. I didn’t think I’d recover and some days I still feel like my stomachs been punched, but I know she’d want me to give each day my all. And that’s what I’m trying to do.
The career change from tax to data – A complete 180 and what impeccable timing. I was ready to try something new. Telling myself it’s a walk of shame to leave a big 4 but it was really a victory lap that I was offered another opportunity. The first 3 months were painful and although I love keeping in touch with my EY fam, there were days it wasn’t helpful knowing I could jump right back into their arms. But we only grow in discomfort and I’ve learned so much in this new world of ESG and data collection. I feel at home wearing baby blue and white.
The places I’ve visited during my Jordan year – Nashville, Cali, NYC, Philippines, Chicago, Washington DC, Atlanta, The Bahamas. I can’t be anymore grateful for the working flexibility and vacation policies my previous company and current offers. It’s always good to get out of town even if it’s brief. I was always scared after college I’d never be able to travel as much but if anything, I travel about the same!
Since my last birthday, I’ve seen family and friends pass away at a young age and older age. I’ve seen family and friends get diagnosed with medical/health conditions. Regardless of the age and person, death is inevitable. And if my eyes have opened to one thing it’s that we only get one chance to live this life. My 24th year, I want to be more engaged in the present moment, with the people I meet and speak with, and with my loved ones. I want to make sure that I spend more time holding love in my heart and not anger. That in challenging moments, I don’t become hopeless or impatient but optimistic. While I love my career, I never want it to be the reason I miss out on the good in life and regret the things I didn’t get to do. No money or fame could ever buy more time and health is wealth. Some ask why I travel so much and it’s more than just a hobby. The places I visit, the people I meet, the food I get to eat, and the things I get to see, are memories I can always hold close to my heart. That if there ever comes a day I’m incapable of seeing the world, I can confidently say, “I already got to see it, or most of it.”
Onward to 25 and another year. I want to be involved in more charity work, since D&B does offer 2 paid volunteer days. There’s more in the world I haven’t seen yet. There’s friends and family I want to call up and catch up with. There’s me still wanting to learn another language. There’s still so much growth opportunities for me personally and in my career. There’s not enough time during our days — a year flew by just like that. But I am determined to try to be better than who I was yesterday. And I am determined to make every second count.
Jamie Vergara 